This website contains a lot of experienced, down to earth philosophers of life and inner struggles, Lupus and Meditation specialist, the website is easy on the eyes, easy to navigate, and the intention is to have the website grow daily with more:topics, replies, features, members and support to others, I feel strongly about my position as admin, to offer members the safest, comfortable, easy going and fun website that creates peace and serenity just by lounging, The path to enlightenment isn't just spiritual, I mean it like, whatever enlightens you, use it!! What the website is based on:
Understanding, realizing, believing, trusting and applying. You will say things like : I deserve to be, I want to be, I can be, I will be! Your own self-belief is the key to successful life-change, achievement, contentment, and happiness. Your own mind, particularly positive suggestion and visualization, will develop your self-belief, and your determination to make successful change to your life. Positive suggestion and visualization, combined with deep relaxation, is an easy way to make powerful positive personal change.

Accepting personal responsibility includes:
Acknowledging that you are solely responsible for the choices in your life.
Accepting that you are responsible for what you choose to feel or think.
Accepting that you choose the direction for your life.
Accepting that you cannot blame others for the choices you have made.
Tearing down the mask of defense or rationale for why others are responsible for who you are, what has happened to you and what you are bound to become.
The rational belief that you are responsible for determining who your are, and how your choices affect your life.
Pointing the finger of responsibility back to yourself and away from others when you are discussing the consequences of your actions.

Realizing that you determine your feelings about any events or actions addressed to you, no matter how negative they seem.
Recognizing that you are your best cheerleader; it is not reasonable or healthy for you to depend on others to make you feel good about yourself.
Recognizing that as you enter adulthood and maturity, you determine how your self-esteem will develop.
Not feeling sorry for the "bum deal" you have been handed but taking hold of your life and giving it direction and reason.
Letting go of your sense of over responsibility for others.
Protecting and nurturing your health and emotional well being.
Taking preventive health oriented steps of structuring your life with time management, stress management, confronting fears and burnout prevention.
Taking an honest inventory of your strengths, abilities, talents, virtues and positive points.
Developing positive, self-affirming, self-talk scripts to enhance your personal development and growth.
Letting go of blame and anger toward those in your past who did the best they could, given the limitations of their knowledge, background and awareness.
Working out anger, hostility, pessimism and depression over past hurts, pains, abuse, mistreatment and misdirection.
I hope to over 1000 members one day, but the important thing is, I help one person at a time and I'm dedicated to my goal.
Thank you so much Admin for letting me share this.